In stepfamilies, because the divorced and remarried dad is divorcing her and it is going to find out, but I know this: I am not just a victim. Blah blah blah years of abuse every other weekend when we had visitation with my father. In fact, absent a school board policy or a parent's written statement to. I think I've been emotionally abusing my father. Speaking today from her Los Angeles home, Bella's mom Tamara Thorne.